Can friends hold you down when you are trying to change your life? How can you stop it?…

Do you still talk to your old friends from school? If you do, you’re lucky. However, most of us leave a lot of friends in the past. This is not something to feel bad about, it is natural because you don’t have any more that connection (school) with your friends. Therefore, it is harder to have something to talk about, I’m both start to lose interest.

This can also happen when you are trying to change your life. When I started my self process of changing, I started to realize how rude and negative were all of my friends, I had to find a way to develop my own self help motivation, because I couldn’t count on them. For example, on time we went to a concert, they kept critisizing everyone on the street, on the concert, on the restaurant, etc… I didn’t want to keep going that, because when you criticize somebody else, you are actually showing what you really are. Yes, it is funny sometimes! But you are laughing about the person, not about the situation. Anyway, I started to become more distant from my friends, because at the end, they didn’t help me change.